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Female (60) looking for Male DeKalb, Illinois, United States

I am a widow of four years. Ready to move on with a widower around my age, 50ish. who is loving, accepting of me who I am, romantic, caring, kind, mentally stable, and ready to move on, gentle, patient, intelligent, willing to listen as well as talk,and who is willing to try new things, and give 50/50, meet me in the middle with things. I am loving, courageous, kind, shy at first, romantic, great conversationalist, humorous, thoughtful, patient, gentle, intelligent. I am with a nice shape, soft around a few areas. I am Church going and sing in the choir at my local parish Greek Orthodox. Dedicated to that special someone, as I was married for 11 years. I have a nice secure job, rent a nice home, and have two wonderful grown sons who live with me, who have their own lives. I prefer the same or similar in someone, race not important, values similar to mine are. I do not control or manipulate, and my worst fault is being to kind and giving, loving. I am learning to say no. I am a one man woman. and am willing to give my all to a sweet, caring, loving, accepting widower,. preferrably with his own stable income, home, etc. children are ok. I lend a shoulder to cry on and comfort, I am looking for same. We both have gone through the worst times. Let us cry, laugh, love together. Friendship first. I am a very slow mover. ok? no hugging and kissing at first.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGreek
BuildAverage
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthNeck length
Best featureLegs
Health ConditionDiabetes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenTwo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
Employment StatusFull-time
Job Titlespecial ed teacher

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Movies, Sports, Re-runs
Favorite TV showsb/w sitcoms watch tv show videos dont like most of what is on local channels like history, discovery, ER Trauma, ESPN i and II on cable
Favorite movies typesAction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Thriller
Favorite moviesanything about education, students, and school, Brother Sun Sister Moon, martial arts, old movies, Marx Brothers, Abbot and Costello
Music typesCountry, Rock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Folk
Favorite artistswhatever strikes my mood
Reading selectionFantasy, Fiction, History, Philosophy, Religious, I'm an author
Favorite booksmy own, Game of thrones,
Idea of funattending plays, live performances, symphony, lectures at university, festivals, walking through the park, holding hands and talking, or sitting around a bonfire cuddling, talking sweet somethings, laughing, movies, playing tennis, golf, traveling, attending Church events, volunteering at social functions. Feeding the people, helping the children who have difficulties making it in life. hiking, camping, and outdoor fun
HobbiesSports, Reading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Dancing, Family, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Camping, Playing cards, Volunteering, Shopping

Personality

My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryworld travel going to wine tastings, dancing the night away at a night club

Views

Goal in lifebe successful and have a loving, lasting romantic life, love and learning partner by my side who shares the same or very similar interests, who is kind, loving, respectful, gentle, honest, not manipulative, controlling, or a mental case. who has his own house, money, car, stable career, or retired, who gets emotional, who cries on my shoulder and leans on me, and lets me do the same. We comfort each other and enjoy our time together. who is accepting of me as I am and encourages me to be all I can be, gently. Someone to fill the spaces that are empty. To have romance, love, and intimacy again and not be alone anymore. To live again, laugh, love, and give again. I give all this to you.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerlike i said, a mentally, physically, spiritually, financially stable man, close to my age, 50ish, who is attractive inside and out, average in weight to in shape, who encourages me gently to be the best I can be, and is polite, happy, kind, considerate, faithful, church going, humorous, intelligent, great conversationalist, and will cry on my shoulder, letting me cry on his. Someone who loves the art of gentle touch and intimacy, and loves to be touched. Who is a great hugger and kisser, a romantic like me. and giving, loving unconditionally who is honest, and trustworthy.
On the first dateNice quiet romantic dinner at a classy restaurant with soft violin music live or recorded, fine wine, dining, and a peaceful romantic walk afterward to continue talking . We will not kiss or hug each other on the first date. I have to get to know someone first for awhile. No words of love, but looks of love are fine!!!! Please I move slow at first. been hurt too many times and I dont want to lead anyone on, if the magic is not there. One can tell immediately in the eyes and body chemistry at the dinner table and walking. holding hands.