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Where to begin, I'm 68 years young, 5'6", 160 lbs, gray hair, blue eyes. I live on the South side of Indianapolis, IN and am a widower. Been retired for some years now and am hoping to find someone like minded that is searching for someone to spend these the twilight years of life together with.

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Living as a widow/widower

Widow/Widower forOver a year
Was married forOver 10 years
Date must be widowedIt's an advantage, but not a must


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height168 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtScarred
Health ConditionOstomy
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusRetired
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Re-runs, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsThe Big Bang Theory, Bloomberg, lots of the older shows
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama, Thriller
Favorite moviesLet It Ride, A Chorus Line, Phantom of the Opera, Fiddler On The Roof,
Music typesCountry, Rock, Pop, Jazz, New age
Favorite artistsEric Clapton, Keiko Matsui,
Reading selectionNews, Auto-biography, Biography, History, Humor, Mathematics, Political
Idea of funPlaying cards, traveling, going to casino
HobbiesMusic, Movies, Internet, Games, Travel, Playing cards, Gambling, Computers, Shopping


SmokerSmoke regularly (5-10 a day)
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asCool
In High School I was a(n)Teachers pet
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic


Political viewsMiddle of the road
Attend religious servicesOn holidays
Goal in lifeTo find a caring, loving woman that is looking for a companion, friend, partner to share these the twilight years of life

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerThe most important thing that I look for is honesty, sincerity and acceptance. Someone that is not looking to change me as I'm not going to try to change them. I'm not looking for some youngster looking for a sugar daddy. I'm not looking for someone to just chat with. I'm not looking for someone to hook up with or friends with benefits. I'm looking for someone that, like myself is looking for someone to spend these the twilight years of life together with. I'm looking for my best friend, companion, partner and yes lover.
On the first dateIt naturally depends on the individual as I will usually allow any one that I date to chose wherever they may like. It is always my desire to please those that I'm with and for us to have a special time together.