Widowed two years after 40 year marriage. I'm fortunate to have a very caring family. I realize tho, that despite working part-timeas a deskclerk..a great family and fabulous grandchildren..I'm lonely. I pride myself on my sense of humor. I am not 40 and nether is my body lol. It's a bit thick..but still okay. I practice the fading art of whistling???? makes me happy.