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Recently widowed looking for friendship

My purpose right now is to take things slow, chat with people here with common interests, meet at some point, and we’ll see where life takes us.

I am a nice, caring, polite, and sensitive guy, but I can certainly be playful. I’m gentle, easy-going most of the time (I know when to buckle down and get the job done), generous, and consider myself a good listener. I’m a little shy and awkward around new people, but friendly and confident once that ice is broken. Definitely a hopeless romantic at heart. I have a great sense of humor that ranges from dry to quirky, and I love to laugh.

I believe a good relationship is based on trust, honesty, respect for each other, love, and a little bit of compromise (life is too short to spend time arguing over what to watch or what music to listen to in the car - I’ll listen to yours if you listen to mine).

I enjoy movies (going to or curling up on the couch), being outdoors (long walks, picnics), gardening, swimming, and relaxing by a fire. I love to cook; I would love to cook for you, but prefer to cook side-by-side with you. I like to learn new things, travel, and explore new places, whether locally or far away, but I also like going back to places I love; I’m comfortable at the beach, mountains, museums, really any place that where I can relax and enjoy the views or go out and do something fun.

I have two incredible teenagers at home whose well-being I am absolutely dedicated to. I love animals and have 2 cats.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildStocky
Height168 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthVery long
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenTwo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusPart-time
Job TitleSenior Scientist

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Situation comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsLOST, Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Stranger Things, Doctor Who, AP Bio, Mom, Big Bang Theory
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Animation, Horror, Thriller
Favorite moviesMarvel and DC movies, spaghetti westerns, Star Wars movies, Harry Potter series, many many more
Music typesRock, Electronic, New age, Ambient, Reggae
Favorite artistsU2, Doors, old-style crooners, Bob Marley
Reading selectionClassic, Fantasy, Science fiction
Favorite booksLoR Trilogy, John Carter of Mars series, Douglas Adams, Foundation series, classic sci-fi
Idea of funAnything that brings satisfaction and joy at the moment; could be a movie, good dinner (in or out), walk in the park or on beach, picnics
HobbiesLearning, TV, Movies, Games, Family, Dining, Cooking, Gardening, Fishing

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Average Joe
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Going to a concert, Going to a museum

Views

Political viewsDemocrat
ReligionSpiritualist
Attend religious servicesOnce a week
Goal in lifeTo live a life filled with fun, happiness, and love. In time, to share my life with someone special. Most importantly right now is to be a father and provider for my 2 incredible kids.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI am looking for someone who is kind, compassionate, honest, and open to sharing their thoughts and feelings. Someone who likes having doors opened for them, but also comfortable with their independence, and who is not afraid to make the first move. A great sense of humor is a must (must be able to laugh at the dorky things I’m liable to say or do).
On the first dateAnything that gives us a chance to talk and get to know each other - picnic, walk in the park, quiet dinner, or just drinks/coffee.