I'm a man that loves an independent woman who's interested in an independent man. I do not want to rule or be ruled. I AM NOT A RELIGIOUS MAN. IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A RELIGIOUS MAN LOOK SOMEWHERE ELSE. I love to cook. HAVE GRILL, WILL COOK. I've barbecued when its been 20 below. I love to dance, listen and play R&B, Blues, and Jazz. I enjoy listening and dancing to live music. I love the water, bicycling, and walking. I do not spend time camping. My idea of camping is a hotel suite with a whirlpool, sauna, and champagne. I'm a night person. I've spent years working nights in the IT industry and I come alive at night. A.M. means ain't moving! I do not play well with others in the morning . I love to drink and party. I'm a well-dressed man. I seldom go out if I'm not dressed in a tie and sport coat or suit. . I'm versatile and not trapped in any boxes. I love used book sales, Sci-Fi, PBS, and NPR. I'm an ENTJ and a history nut. I taught math and science.